The Ridley Band Reunion - News

Ridley Alumni Band Announcement - Mar. 1, 2008

Hi There One and All,

There was talk a while ago about an alumni band getting together for a performance and now just might be the right time. The community chorus under the direction of John Waldie, (also a band alumnus), is putting on a concert on Saturday June 14, 2008. He has asked me if it would be possible to put together an alumni band to join them. Hence this letter to all.

It seems like a perfect opportunity for us involving only about five selections on our part as we would share the stage with the chorus. This means less prep time for us. Since the concert is taking place on Flag Day, our focus will be on patriotic music or music about America.

Are you interested? Here are the pertinent stats as I see them now: We will meet on Wednesday, March 26, 7:30 p.m. in the chorus room of the old high school for an informational meeting to confirm rehearsal dates, instrument balance, instrument needs and parts to be played. Rehearsals would take place at the old high school (now the community center) on the following dates:

Tuesdays, April 22 and 29, May 20, and June 3, all starting at 7:30 - 9:00 p.m. Final rehearsal – Thursday, June 12, hopefully at the new high school with the concert on the 14th, also at the new high school. (We may plan a short rehearsal on the day of the concert for any late comers, to do a run through and acquaint them with the seating and program.)

There are a total of 5 rehearsals, so each is obviously important; however, if you cannot make one or two (as long as your chops are in shape) it’s not a big deal. For those of you who live a prohibitive distance away but have kept up with your instrument, I will even mail a folder of the music for you to practice on your own. (I would even be willing to contact the Ramada to get group rates for those traveling and staying over.)

Right now, information is the key! ALL alumni are invited to participate, from Moses up to the current graduating class! Just follow the link www.ridleybandreunion.com/alumni.htm to visit the Alumni Band Page and fill out the registration form to join us!

The registration form will provide us confirmation of your involvement, instrument you play, your honest appraisal of your playing level TODAY (oh jeez), whether you have access to an instrument or would need one to borrow, (this may be difficult, but I will do my best to find extra instruments).

By the way, we had many alumni who did not hear of our recent reunion until after the event, so in order to avoid the same disappointment again, please pass this information on to anyone in your address book, whether you are participating or not!

We hope that RAMP, guard members, family and friends will attend and join us afterwards at a local watering hole to celebrate the event! More info on that will follow as it becomes available. So, what do you say?

Consider joining us!  Rick

Band Reunion Postscript Oct. 14, 2007

From Mr. S.

Well, here we are, the day after the reunion and I am sitting here in a daze, so honored at the outpouring of affection and well wishes from everyone, thrilled at how wonderful the event went, and yet so incredibly sad that it came and went by so quickly.

How can I encapsulate the evening in a short sentence or paragraph. I cannot, that is simply not possible. The night seemed almost like Christmas, a year in the preparation, such anticipation, and after what seemed a short time of magical celebration it was over and we returned to our daily lives. But the memories are so sweet, the DVD that Dave made is so memorable, the contributions by Lee in all of the organization and record keeping were invaluable, as was the total efforts of the entire committee, Carol, Dianne, Andrea, Mark, Rich, and Helene. You may never know what they went through in the past year to make this evening right for you.

The re-connections with all of you was the absolute best.

So many people doing so much, so many people coming so far, and just so many people. 220 attendee's. I am humbled and had to take the time to thank you once again.

In the next few weeks I will go over the lists, confirming those who were interested in the possibility of creating and being part of an alumni band. The success of that project really depends on the numbers interested, the balance of players, availability of certain instruments that you may not own, availability of rehearsal space, and so on. Only time will tell. Should anyone have changed their minds about their participation in an alumni band, whether to drop or add, please contact Dave or Lee so that they can keep the list updated.

Next on the "to do" list . . . Please send any pictures that you took at the reunion, whether they are stills or video, to Dave and during the next several weeks he will continue to update the website.

We also welcome any and all comments on how you felt the evening went. We will post those and use your critiques to improve on our next gathering.

Keep in touch, send additional email addresses of grads who are not currently on our list. One recurring comment I heard at the reunion was . . . "where is so and so", "did anyone contact her or him", and the simple answer is that we cannot contact someone who we do not have an address for. So continue to help us out there.

And finally, send a note to your BRAC members, their efforts in launching this evening was huge, their time away from their own families was considerable and their concern for you having a great night was always uppermost in their minds.

I'll close with a quote from my speech . . . .

"The quality of life is not determined by the number of breaths you take, but rather by the moments that take your breath away!" And you left me breathless!

Stay in touch . . . . . . love ya!    Rick Swallow - Oct. 14, 2007

Band Reunion News Oct. 1, 2007

Hi to all,

Well this is it, the last call as it were to get your form and check in to the reunion committee. Less then one week is left until the due date and the week after that is the actual event. Here is some info that should excite you . . . .

Thus far we have over 160 confirmed / paid attendee's and another 30 + who have verbally committed, although they have not yet sent in forms and money. Each decade, as well as staff and RAMP parents are well represented. All we need now is for you to join us for it to be a complete evening.

Don't forget to bring your camera's that night and be sure to share the pictures with Dave Emplit so that we can add a post-script to the website showing all of the pictures. Also, we now have collected all of the shows from 1985 through 1993, as well as some cameo's of camp and the "Stoned Wheat Thins", so the DVD project is moving along very nicely.

Bottom line is that we are looking for an incredible night of memories and fun, so we sure hope that you will be able to join us.

Please respond ASAP, and I look forward to seeing you all Sat. Oct. 13. Rick

Fellow Band/RAMP Alumni:

WOW! We're down to our last (2) weeks with only (1) left in which to send in your monies. We have scheduled to meet with the Ramada Monday morning, 10.08.07 to finalize our plans for our reunion. To that end, we will need to be IN RECEIPT of all monies by Sunday afternoon which means via USPS by Saturday, 10.06.07 and "drop offs at Lee's house" by Sunday, 10.07.07. I'll check my mailbox Sunday night for all the "stragglers", not a problem.

Any and all "fence sitters" will, I'm afraid, be sorry on Sunday, 10.14.07 they sat this one out. Trumpets, units and woodwinds are many, we picked up a few more flutes and BELLS! WAY TO GO BELLS!!!!!!!

I think we may need to add another table to accommodate more RAMP members, HOO-RAH for RAMP! (As has been the case for (35) years, we could ALWAYS use some more "bones"! I could be partial.)

We've attracted some more "newbies" who've sent in their RSVP's and want to let them know and remind others, the attire for the evening is "casual/business casual" and as always... UNDERWEAR IS OPTIONAL! Weather is expected to be dark.

Attendees will be coming from Minot, ND... Manhattan Beach, CA... Kissimmee, FL... Ashburn, VA... Palm Beach Gardens, FL... Oceanside, CA... Ormond Beach, FL... St. Louis, MO... Albequerque, NM... Marietta, GA... New York, NY... Ware, MA... Fayetteville, NC... Stoney Point, NY... Lewes, DE... Swedesboro, NJ... and ALL points in between.

Again, the response to our idea for a Band Reunion has, quite frankly, been overwhelming thanks to YOU, Band and RAMP alumni. It's our hope that a truly FUN time will be had by all with great food, plentiful drink and fond memories.

Thank you, Lee Harper - '73 Trombone

Band Reunion Postscript Oct. 14, 2007

From Mr. S.

Well, here we are, the day after the reunion and I am sitting here in a daze, so honored at the outpouring of affection and well wishes from everyone, thrilled at how wonderful the event went, and yet so incredibly sad that it came and went by so quickly.

How can I encapsulate the evening in a short sentence or paragraph. I cannot, that is simply not possible. The night seemed almost like Christmas, a year in the preparation, such anticipation, and after what seemed a short time of magical celebration it was over and we returned to our daily lives. But the memories are so sweet, the DVD that Dave made is so memorable, the contributions by Lee in all of the organization and record keeping were invaluable, as was the total efforts of the entire committee, Carol, Dianne, Andrea, Mark, Rich, and Helene. You may never know what they went through in the past year to make this evening right for you.

The re-connections with all of you was the absolute best.

So many people doing so much, so many people coming so far, and just so many people. 220 attendee's. I am humbled and had to take the time to thank you once again.

In the next few weeks I will go over the lists, confirming those who were interested in the possibility of creating and being part of an alumni band. The success of that project really depends on the numbers interested, the balance of players, availability of certain instruments that you may not own, availability of rehearsal space, and so on. Only time will tell. Should anyone have changed their minds about their participation in an alumni band, whether to drop or add, please contact Dave or Lee so that they can keep the list updated.

Next on the "to do" list . . . Please send any pictures that you took at the reunion, whether they are stills or video, to Dave and during the next several weeks he will continue to update the website.

We also welcome any and all comments on how you felt the evening went. We will post those and use your critiques to improve on our next gathering.

Keep in touch, send additional email addresses of grads who are not currently on our list. One recurring comment I heard at the reunion was . . . "where is so and so", "did anyone contact her or him", and the simple answer is that we cannot contact someone who we do not have an address for. So continue to help us out there.

And finally, send a note to your BRAC members, their efforts in launching this evening was huge, their time away from their own families was considerable and their concern for you having a great night was always uppermost in their minds.

I'll close with a quote from my speech . . . .

"The quality of life is not determined by the number of breaths you take, but rather by the moments that take your breath away!" And you left me breathless!

Stay in touch . . . . . . love ya!    Rick Swallow - Oct. 14, 2007

Band Reunion News Sept. 24, 2007

Fellow Band Peeps:

I'd like to bring you up to speed on plans for our reunion. We are close to having 300 contact names thanks to EVERYONE'S efforts in getting the word out. We're closing in on our goal of at least 175 attendees and that will continue to rise.

RAMP will be well represented filling about (3) tables so far, Drums, Trumpets and Units seem to be leading the way... LET'S GO TROMBONES!!!!!!!!!! Plenty of Woodwinds, a couple Cymbals and a Bells for good measure, WAY TO GO!

Song requests have been dribbling in, the DJ's collection IS extensive but if you have YOUR song request please email it in to Dave Emplit to assure it being played.

We've picked up about 20-30 "newbies" since our last update, soooooooooo... attire for the evening is casual/business casual. We ask that you leave your sneakers and T-Shirts at home and, once again, underwear IS optional!

Singles have edged out the couples but the margin remains tight.

Every effort is being made to make the evening one that will be talked about for WEEKS (if not months) to come, a reunion by which all others shall be judged. To that end, please continue to contact those whose names do not appear on our "Distribution" page and encourage them to attend. Please let them know.....

THE DEADLINE FOR DEPOSITS HAS BEEN EXTENDED TO OCTOBER 5, 2007!!!!
 

Thank you, Lee Harper - '73 Trombone

Band Reunion News Sept. 16, 2007

Band Alumni:

I am happy to announce the extension of the deadline for the return of your Invitation from 09.15.07 to 10.05.07, another (3) weeks. 

Response to our Ridley Band Reunion and invitation has been overwhelming with another 15-20 people finding out about it in the last couple weeks alone and asking if there was any possibility of extending. Add to that number another 20-30 with verbal commits and the need is obvious. This was not an unexpected turn of events by the Reunion Committee and we are glad to oblige. For anyone wishing for an extension... YOU HAVE IT!

BRAC will be meeting Fri night and will plan to do so on a more frequent basis to ensure that the reunion goes off without a hitch and that an enjoyable time will be had by all. I believe I can speak for the BRAC and say this has truly been a "labor of love". Your participation will be the icing on the cake with people coming from MA, CA, NM and FL.

The website has EXPLODED with over (8100) hits, additions to our "Bios" and "Pics & Vids" pages have drawn several comments which you can find on our "Discussion" page and should check out, Dave Emplit has performed above and beYOND the call of duty with assembling the information and creating our website... KUDOS TO DAVE!!!!!!!!!!!

Stay tuned for Newsletter broadcasts as information warrants.

Thank you, Lee Harper - '73 Trombone

Band Reunion News Sept. 13, 2007

Band Geeksters:

ONE MONTH TO GO!!!!!!!!!!

Just want to pass along MANY thanks to all who have sent in their deposits for the RIDLEY BAND REUNION after Labor Day... my mail came today bundled with a RUBBER BAND! AWESOME!

Word of mouth has helped tremendously, must have been all those Ridley people down the shore who've come back, its great.

We're OVER 7600 hits on the website, we have a few more Bios on our BIOGRAPHIES page and the Pics 'n Vids have received a LOT of interest. Dave "Gates" hopes to put a montage together for us on DVD... INCREDIBLE job Dave, thank you VERY much for your efforts.

Much has been made of my reference to, "Bird" with weary queries about the dreary theory being... WHO'S "BIRD"? People, especially you "young" ones, Rick was nicknaming everybody back in the day so we nicknamed him "Bird". Why you ask, well a "swallow" is a bird. Now THAT'S the story of who "Bird" is and why.

A couple inquiries on attire.... Casual/business casual is the attire for the evening. We're requesting you leave your sneakers and T-Shirts home and lest we forget... UNDERWEAR IS OPTIONAL!

SONG REQUESTS! The form is available on the website, I encourage all who wish for "their" song to be played that they fill out the form and email in to Dave. The DJ has about every song ever written but I know us, one of us will request that one, special Bulgarian polka and he won't have it! Fill it out and ZIP it in!

Until the next update, we have ONE MONTH TO GO GANG! Anyone who's name you DO NOT see on our list, email them... CALL them... ROUSE them from bed in the middle of the night and tell them to get on board. We don't want to leave anyone behind when "the bus pulls out!"

Weather for the evening is looking good... promises to be dark!

L8r, Lee Harper - '73 Trombone

Sept. 10, 2007 - Band Reunion News From Rick Swallow

Hello to all,

Response to the reunion has been coming in steady. Many have sent in checks and reserved rooms and many more have verbally committed. It has been a joy to hear from past staff and RAMP members as well as front and band alumni. Emails have been racing back and forth and reconnections are being made, even as I write this note.

We are in the midst of a project to collect as much video of band performances as well as pictures to complement all of the years past. It is a monumental task that the entire planning committee has taken on (Dave Emplit in particular) and we could use your help. If you have, or know someone who has access to any video's that were taken of camps or comps, I would be most grateful if you would send them to me, (guaranteed to be returned) so that we can copy them and add them to our files. We are planning to put everything we can collect (photos and videos) on a DVD that will be available at the reunion.

As a matter of fact, Dave has gone so far as to post videos both on our website at www.ridleybandreunion.com/videos.htm as well as on "You Tube" at www.youtube.com/emplitdw where you can go to and view past years' shows! Now, who would not want to see all of those years displayed to the world!? Seriously, a complete collection of performances over the years would indeed be rewarding and send a huge message that the Ridley Raider Band WAS and IS for real. If you have any videos or pictures that you could lend to us to copy and add, we would all be grateful. Contact Dave at Dave@RidleyBandReunion.com.

By the way, if you have not yet checked out the website, do it! We have had over 7000 hits to date and I will bet that we pass 10,000 before the reunion. The interest in this is phenomenal! In the past two weeks, I have run into four different band alumni who had not heard of the reunion or the website. All four expressed interest in attending. I mention this because there are still many who may end up being left out of the gathering despite our efforts to get the word out. So, if you have addresses or can contact anyone else, please do so.

I have never seen such a spontaneous explosion of interest in anything like this and I can only attribute it to the closeness and brotherhood we have all felt in being a part of "OUR" organization. I cannot wait to see all of you at the reunion. By the way, if you have not yet signed up, there is still time. Go to the website for the information and RSVP form and send it to Lee Harper. If nothing else, check out the website at www.ridleybandreunion.com to join in the fun and the memories.

I wish you well and hope to see you there! Rick Swallow

Sept. 3, 2007 - Fellow Band Geeks: WELCOME BACK from your Labor Day holiday!!! Trusting your summer was fun and safe, now you have the reunion to look forward to!

I want to update you all on the latest of news. Our website is closing in on (6700) hits, FANTASTIC! Word is spreading among us with assistance from Class websites (i.e. '73, '74 etc) which is helpful, flyers, Cable TV announcement and general "word of mouth" are all proving their worth.

SONG REQUESTS: You'll find the link for our SONG REQUEST form that you can easily fill out, send back to Dave Emplit and we'll pass it along to our DJ. Our DJ has one of the most extensive libraries around but don't assume he has YOUR song. Rather than be disappointed I encourage you to shoot us a REQUEST!


BIOGRAPHIES: This page has grOWN over the last few weeks and YOUR biography will help build a SUPER page. Please submit and let us know how your doing... a "past" and "recent" pic are appreciated.

PICS 'n VIDS: If anyone has band related photos and/or videos they would like to contribute, please contact Dave Emplit and he can make that happen... check out his work on our PHOTOS / VIDEOS page.

SPOUSES/SIGNIFICANT OTHERS: This question has been raised, "How many are bringing spouses/SO's"? Well, we're currently running 40/60 couples/singles... this is YOUR CALL! Whatever will keep you talking days/weeks/months after the reunion is probably the best decision.

ATTIRE: All we are asking is that you leave your sneakers and T-Shirts at the gym, casual or business casual attire would be great! Underwear is OPTIONAL!

RAMADA RESERVATIONS: Room reservations can be made through their "Group Reservations" desk which is open Mon-Fri, closed weekends. BOOK NOW if you haven't already done so.

We ask if you know of any past band member during the Swallow years who may not have been contacted, please direct them to our website (www.ridleybandreunion.com). Look for future updates as news warrants, our next BRAC meeting is scheduled for 09.07.07.

L8r, Lee Harper '73 Trombone

July 20, 2007 - Today marks the 6 month anniversary of the Band Reunion website. It is still a work in progress and will continue to evolve and change as time goes on. To date we have over 4500 visits to this site since going online on Jan. 20th. We now have over 250 email and snail mail addresses and we are less then three months away from the reunion.

This weekend a newsletter will go out to the distribution list containing an invitation by Rick Swallow to join us for a night of fun, memories, re-acquaintances and band style celebration on October 13th. The invitation and RSVP form can also be found on this site simply by clicking on the Invitation / RSVP link.

Take Care, Dave

June 12, 2007 - Summer is now officially upon us and many are planning their three and four digit $$$$ vacations. This is an excellent time to put into perspective how much return you will get from the $60 ticket to the band reunion. For those who have the extra cost of airline and hotel accommodations, think about combining the band reunion with weekend visits to family and friends who are still in the area. Start shopping now to get the cheapest airline tickets.

The RSVP announcement for the reunion will be sent out to the distribution list in early July, so keep an eye out for it.

A biography page has been added to the website for those who would like to post some information about themselves for others to see. Feel free to tell us as little or as much about your life since high school as you feel comfortable disclosing. Throw in a small photo or your email address if you'd like others to see what you look like now or would like to receive emails from your old friends.

Simply email your bio text and (optional) photo to me at Dave@RidleyBandReunion.com and I will post it alphabetically on the Biographies page. Keep in mind that you must already be on our distribution list and your bio must be sent from the email address you gave us when signing up for the distribution list to ensure authenticity. Dave

June 2, 2007 - Ridley Band Alumni: I wanted to bring you up to speed on the latest. The Band Reunion Action Committee (BRAC) will be meeting in July at which time the final touches will be put on plans for our 1st annual band reunion on October 13, 2007 being held at the newly remodeled Ramada in Essington for which ALL details can be found at our Ridley Band Website.

Much preparation has gone into making this a reunion by which ALL reunions shall be judged. A choice of (3) fine meals, lodging at a discount for us, an "entertainment package" 2nd to none and... AND... OPEN BAR! Yes friends you heard correctly... an OPEN BAR!

Our list of alumni has been growing thanks to the efforts of all of you... the word IS spreading. We look forward to a great evening, memories, reminisces, old friends and general good time... for "shits 'n giggles"!

(If anyone knows the whereabouts of Farkel Hollis please let him know of the event.)

Thank you, Lee Harper - '73 Trombone

April 29, 2007 - The BRAC met last Friday night and nailed down a few more details relating to our upcoming reunion. Dave informed us of a new format for the DISCUSSION PAGE at the site AND... PHOTOS from the '70's, '80's and '90's have now been posted. As more pix are gathered they'll be posted, which leads me to my next request:

Anyone who has BAND related photos/slides preferably close shots (we seem to have TONS of group, line and distance shots) or candid pix would be much appreciated. If you can scan them and send them that'd be great, if not, Dave or I could make arrangements to pick them up, scan them, and get them back to you post haste.

Next request: Anyone who knows a past RAMP member who served during "The Swallow Years", would you please extend an effort to contact them. The RAMP "network" may not be as finely honed as the band member's, so please let them know of the reunion and that their presence IS welcome.

We are closing in on (3000) hits to the website (WAY TO GO DAVE) and the list of email/snail addresses has exceeded (220) and growing. With final edits made to the RSVP form Fri night, expect to see that showing up in your mailboxes early July. Don't forget, spouses/friends ARE welcome, food will be plenty, entertainment package AWESOME, and.... OH BY THE WAY... OPEN BAR! L8r, Lee Harper - '73 Trombone

Feb. 17, 2007 - Today marks the introduction of the Discussion forum, which is going to be a fun way for all us band alumni and friends to put out messages that can be viewed and commented on by all. Hopefully it will generate some communication between some of us who have lost touch over the years. If this turns out to be a success I will consider adding a band chat room, which will be even more spontaneous and will provide real time chatting amongst the people logged in.

My next priority will be to get some band photos up on the site. I have lots of photos to scan and organize and am always looking for more to add to our collection. Feel free to contribute with any photos you might have by scanning them in and sending them to me.

On another note, on our 23rd day online (Feb. 13, 2007) we exceeded 1000 hits or views of the site. In the same time we also grew our distribution list by 22% over a number that had previously taken eight months to accumulate. The power of the Web is a real thing. Please continue to spread the word so we can make the reunion a real band party!

Our next committee meeting is scheduled for Mar. 9, 2007. Anyone with ideas or suggestions that they would like to be discussed at the meeting should drop me an email. Dave Emplit

Jan. 20, 2007 - This is the official launch of the Reunion website. It is a work in progress and will continue to grow between now and the reunion and even after the event. Any website or reunion feedback or ideas should be sent to me as site webmaster and a member of the reunion committee.

The last committee meeting was held on Jan. 12th, 2007 and several issues were addressed regarding the promotion of the event. An important item on the table was the final cost per person for the reunion. We wanted to keep the price as low as possible while providing a memorable night for all. The meal is a nice sit-down affair and the DJ entertainment is excellent. The music entertainment will be balanced between both the interests of band members as well as our guests. Our intent is for your guest to have as much fun as you do. They will be dancing their butts off while you are busy reminiscing with your "old" buddies. Feel free to dance your butt off too, if that is what works for you.

The final decision was between a cash bar and an open bar. This decision made a $10 difference in the overall cost ($50 cash bar versus $60 open bar). It would have been a simple matter to keep the cost at $50 by going with the cash bar, but we reasoned that most band members (generally being party animals) with livers still intact will probably have at least two or three drinks during the night. At that point your cost that evening will begin to exceed the $10 difference. So here's the plan. We spend the extra $10 for a ticket and drink our faces off! Rooms will be available at discount rates and there are plenty of other inexpensive lodging choices within walking distance. If you're flying in call the Ramada for their free shuttle. We're going to party down like only the band knows how!

Find a pickle jar somewhere and start putting your extra change into it. By this summer you should have enough money to afford the cost. The dress is casual, so don't buy any new clothes. This is going to be a celebration worthy of the "Swallow Years". Anyone who was part of those years will know what I mean.

I hope to see you there. Dave Emplit

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